Taking Sides...

Is it crazy to believe that things are not always going to be in your favor? Let's get real. Some males and females really don't know when to stop playing victim. Let's cut right to it shall we? 

Only two days into 2018 and I see nothing but baby momma and baby daddy drama all up and down Facebook. What happened to the new slate?  Of course I did some unfriending. I am changing things up this year and will not dare to witness or deal with foolishness. What is funny to me is that either just 3 days earlier both sides were calling truce or someone keeps trying to make everyone believe they are done with each other... Not everything is meant to be on Facebook which is half of the problem now. Whatever happened to us calling a good friend for advice? Talking to our moms, dads, grandmas, or some family member we are close to? A good ole mediator. 

I am going to make this clear and cut for all of you. I AM NOT CHOOSING SIDES. That is clearly your business and the way I see it, if you keep choosing to deal with fuckery then so be it. I will not feel sorry for either party. It kills me that people play victim and when given advice that they do not like then ALL OF A SUDDENNNNNNNN you are not their friend and you don't have their best interest at heart... blah blah blah.... blazay split.

Let's grow up!? 

Not everything was meant for you to have and not everything is going to be in your favor. Get real. Now, let us do a little math here. If YOU keep letting things happen to you that YOU do not like then that sir/ma'am is on YOU. You are the common denominator of all of your issues. Stop pointing the finger at the other parties. It is not the fault of your friends, family, and all other 3rd parties you want to be involved. Don't let it be me... your whole membership in my life will be REVOKED (Miss Perkins Style if need be.)  I refuse to take sides. Even worse if I break that rule I will not be siding with the idiot who chooses to keep playing themselves for a fool. 

Some ships are meant to be sailed , crashed and burned... Friendships... Relationships, Friend Zoneships... all of them. Not everything is going to be perfect for everyone. At then end of the day when that so called person you love is doing everything in their power to harm you and the others you love then it is time for them to go. 

So many times I see bitter men and women who just can't seem to let go... just remember that in every war their are casualties.... How far are you going to go to try and best the other person before they get the best of you? 

Take My Word...xoxo

JaLeigha